Memories of Olive Garden
I can be critical, perhaps even condescending, in my opinions regarding excellent food versus food for the masses. But sometimes I’m torn, because I have a nostalgia for the way I used to just appreciate things for what they are, without fuss or pretension.
There’s been a lot of talk about Marilyn Hagerty’s review of an Olive Garden in Grand Forks, ND. I love that Anthony Bourdain stated that he was enjoying watching Marilyn’s “triumph over the snarkologists (myself included)”. I’ve been to South Dakota, and it was stark in its overall vibe of distances and loneliness, at least to a gal from New Jersey. I can only imagine that North Dakota is similar.
I suppose it’s hard to ever completely detach oneself from a first experience. My first experience at an Olive Garden was in New York state when I was 17 back in the late 90′s. I was on a road trip with my Dad to visit college campuses before deciding on where to apply. We were mainly visiting state schools, and I don’t remember exactly how we decided on going to a particular Olive Garden but there we were. I remember thinking it was damn good. I remember the cheesecake. I remember my Dad liked it, too.
Fast forward two years later, I was in a statistics class in college. The adjunct professor was prone to chatting about his personal life, including one morning about his daughter. He was very proud of the fact that she was attending Sarah Lawrence instead of a state school. He was also very proud about how his daughter saved money by going to the Olive Garden with her friends and filled up on salad and breadsticks. The fact that you can’t win at roulette because of the OO and this little Olive Garden story are the only things I really remember about that class.
Since that first experience at the Olive Garden, I’ve had numerous exceptional meals in New York City, dined on moules and frites in Brussels, and tasted gnocchi in Como, Italy. But I can count on one hand the number of times I had a meal alone with my Dad at a restaurant, and in my memory, the Olive Garden was fancy. To a girl on her way to college from a middle-class background who grew up 15 miles from New York City, a chain restaurant with a Tuscan theme was lovely. I get it Marilyn!






